I am reading a psycho book!!!

Just find out a passage quite good,
want to share here.
But it is in chinese words.
So maybe better to understand what is the meaning!!

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我怎樣才能把他人作為達到目的的手段呢?
我怎樣才能通過將他人看作目的, 以表示對他人的尊重呢??
在第一種情況下, 我可以把他人看作環境鏈條的一個環節,
是我必須應付的一個環節.
在第二種情況下, 我應當盡力去理解他人.
唯有通過對鄰人產生興趣, 而不必真的告訴他,
唯有通過思考這個人, 理解他的工作, 與他的命運產生共鳴,
以及設法去理解他, 才能做到真正地去尊重鄰人.
唯有克服自身的苦惱, 成為無私的人,
唯有忘記和他人之間的那些小口角,
唯有能夠克制自己的不耐煩, 努力去理解他人,
才說得上是真正地與鄰人亳無利害計較.
一個人能夠遵循道德原則行事,
是因為他已經戰勝了那個阻礙他去理解鄰人的最大強敵~~自私.
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NICE??? I believe that too,
sometimes when I know someone is better than me,
I will jealous, and can't believe what she have now.
This is selfish! This is jealous!
This is why I can't closer with her,
or why we so easy have agrue...
All of these because I am selfish and jealous her.
But what should I do??
Respect...I thought that if I no hurt people and being polite is already respect.
But can I be more patient?
Can I try to understand her?
Can I no compare with her?
Can I forget the fight with her before?
I don't know, books didn't teach me how to do!
HAHAAH!!!